Tuesday, November 27, 2018

FRIENDSHIP

How do you know that you are someone's friend?

Is it because you meet them often?
Is it because you tell them your story?
Is it because they tell you their story?
Is it because you share your food with them?
Is it because you laugh together?
Is it because you cry together?
Is it because they add you on their close friend list on instagram?

What?

What can make someone be your friend?

What does even friend mean to you? To us?

Friendship is strange.

We can say that someone is our friend when they just say that we are only an acquaintance.

Just how?

Should it be mutual? Should it be a win-win?

I don't care what is but I am just glad I have someone who can listen to my story about nothing.
I am just glad someone want to invest their precious time to be with me.
I am just glad I can talk about anything without even have to worry about what I say.

I don't know about friendship but what actually matter is "the same frequency".
You won't feel uncomfortable being around people who are in the same level as you.
Those who are in the same frequency won't worry about a thing.
You can share the same jokes.
You won't feel ungrateful about someone else's wealth/looks/education.
You won't feel awkward just to be with them.
You will always find anything to talk about.


I think, that's what matters.